Keeping Life Creative

My grandma seems to be on every possible charity mailing list and so she’s always getting “free gifts” thanking her–or encouraging her to donate. Being resourceful, she’s always saved the goodies (stickers, address labels, etc.), and as far as I can think back I’ve loved opening the mailbox to find a letter or package from her with a little surprise lovingly tucked inside.

Even though she is much older and has trouble getting to the post office on her own these days, my grandma continues the tradition of stuffing envelopes with junk-mail treasures now for my kids and they look forward to getting letters from her as much as I did. The “free gifts” become a great source of “free entertainment” for them and they have the best time covering scratch papers with stickies, making pictures, and sometimes even cards to mail back to great-grandma!

Not only is it fun for them to get mail, it’s been fun for me to share the tradition and a bit of my childhood memories with them. Sharing the memorable experience, these junk-filled packages have become more than free gifts to us–they are priceless.

This time, as I was helping the kids open their latest mailbox goodie, there was a surprise for me too–a small slip of yellow paper tucked within. Assuming it was a letter from my grandma, there were indescribable feelings as I realized it was a handwritten note from my now-passed grandpa–a note grandma found as she’s been sorting through his earthly belongings. On the slip of yellow-lined paper, neatly written almost 30 years ago, was a blessing grandpa gave me as a newborn baby. The notepaper is worn on the creases, the pencil marks are fading, but the writing–his handwriting–is there, legible, and from him to me.

Reading the note, I can imagine my grandpa sitting at his desk, a small space cleared of the cuckoo clock parts he’s been assembling, as he ponders a new life–my new life–and what blessings he will bestow. Grandpa was a man of few words, but when he spoke, you listened, and so although the note is short and to the point, I listen and can feel his love for me.

Yes, this time, more than ever, my grandma’s junk-filled mail was truly priceless.

Filed Under: My Story

Sneak Peek

2011

One of the first of the projects I’m working on for my hoping-to-open-soon Etsy store. . .

Inspired by this post.

Let me know what you think. xoxo

Filed Under: My Designs

Yes Day

2011

One of our favorite books lately is Yes Day, a story about one day of the year in which all of the main character’s requests are granted. Pizza for breakfast? Yes. Staying up late? Yes. Picking the cereal at the grocery store? Yes.

I believe saying “no” is definitely part of healthy parenting, and while my kids may not like it, I have the greater perspective to know established boundaries and reasonable nos are best for them, and best for our family.

Donuts for breakfast? No, that’s not a healthy choice.

Stay up late? No, your body is growing and you need more rest.

Dump every toy we own? I don’t think so! You need clean up as you go.

At the same time, I think there are way too many times I say “no” just because I’m not in the mood, it’s too messy, I’m tired, or busy.

My kids have been asking to have a “yes day” of their own lately, and so I thought spring break would be a good time to grant some wishes. The night before we made a list of everything they hoped to do and they certainly had a lot of requests! I set some boundaries though, and explained that while I was going to do the best I could to say “yes” to the things on their list, it was mommy’s “yes day” too, and so they needed to say “yes” to the things I asked of them as well. The day surprisingly went really well, and we had a very fun, very full day with few tantrums–a huge accomplishment for me with three children under age five.

Just a few highlights from our Yes Day:

Pizza and Popsicles for breakfast? Yes

Help mommy unload the dishwasher? Yes

Blow bubbles? Yes

Watch a movie? Yes

Go to Target and choose a new toy? Yes (with a $ limit)

Go to the fabric store with mommy (and not whine about it)? Yes (well, almost . . .)

Go to the park? Yes

Cooperate while mommy takes pictures? Yes

Play on the computer? Yes

Have a sword fight? Yes

Get Happy Meals? Yes (a BIG deal since we NEVER do this!!)

Go out for ice cream? Yes.

Sometimes I feel like the bad guy because I’m with them all day, enforcing rules, and then daddy comes home and saves the day with tickles and wrestles and romps. So it was good for me to have a day where I could be silly, and spoil a bit, and show them mommies can be fun too.

In fact I loved our day so much we may just make Yes Day an annual spring break tradition!

What about you? Are you a “yes” mom or a “no” mom? Is having a Yes Day something you’d like to try?

Filed Under: Mommy Moments

My To-Do List

2011

Between the three little ones, all day I hear some version of,

“Mommy, will you. . .”

While I say my family is my “top priority,” all too often it’s easy for me to get caught up with my “to-do” list: finish my e-mail/blog post, fold the laundry, wash the dishes, clip coupons, make dinner, work on my designs, return phone calls, plan my church lesson, etc. And then my kids get answers like. . .

I’ve been really bad about letting my list busy my day, and then missing the joy of my kids’ creativity and innocence. And I don’t want to be that kind of mom. Not that I’m necessarily the BEST mom, but since I am their mom, I want to be the best I can be and give them my presence rather than just presents. It’s part of my goal to “prosper” this year. Because I don’t want them to remember me as always being too busy.

A wise friend recently reminded me that there will be a day when they won’t want to play with me anymore and that they’ll be too old to think snuggling on the couch and watching cartoons is fun. And that I will miss this.

And really, who are we kidding? My “to-do” list is always LONG and rarely gets checked off. And there is always more work to do. It’s a hard lesson I’m learning, but I’m trying to be better at picking my battles, saying Y-E-S more than N-O, and showing my family that they really are my priorities. I want to be better about adding THEM to my to-do list. More one-on-one time, more snuggles, more silly mommy.

Have you seen the book “Yes Day?” It’s one of my kiddos’ favorites. We had our own “yes day” last week during spring break. More details tomorrow! Have a happy Monday.

Friendly Faces by Jacque Larsen; He Said, She Said quote bubbles by me

Filed Under: Mommy Moments

Creativity is on Spring Break

2011

This week I’ve been busy. . .

hanging out

hunting for dandelions

eating too many scoops of ice cream

chasing munchkins at the park

escaping the wrath of the evil pirate king

and working on some special secret projects!!!

Sneak peeks coming next week!!

Have a fantastic weekend!! xoxo

Filed Under: Mommy Moments

Group Freezer Cooking and OAMM Round-up

2011

{homemade refried beans}

One day last week I got together with a couple friends for a group freezer cooking day. I do a lot of freezer cooking on my own, so it was fun to get together and share the task with friends. I mean, we all have to eat, and we all have to feed our families, so why not do it together?

Being our first time, we’ll likely make a few organizational changes for next time, but overall, it went really well. We each chose three recipes we wanted to make, and brought the ingredients to prepare those meals as well as our own freezer dishes. After a few hours of working we each came away with 11 meals (two of the recipes ended up making enough servings to divide into two meals). We were all tired, but felt so good about our success and it’s soooo nice to be able to grab an already prepared meal out of the freezer on a busy night. Getting together to cook was also a good way to share new recipes and try new foods to introduce to my family.

{chicken cordon blue bake}

It’s been a month since I started contributing posts at Once a Month Mom, and April is my first “solo” menu. Writing recipes and menus has been an interesting, challenging, growing experience for me, but as I have done so, I’ve become even more converted to freezer cooking. It definitely “works” for me and my family as it relieves most of the “dinnertime stress” I used to feel.

I thought I’d post a little round-up of what I’ve been posting in the past month in case you missed them. And definitely stay tuned because the upcoming menus are even better!

{teriyaki honey chicken}

{baked chicken and artichoke pasta with sundried tomatoes}

{artichoke bread}

{tacos in a sleeping bag}

This post will be linked to: Frugal Food Thursday @ Frugal Follies; Ultimate Recipe Swap @ Life as Mom; Things I Love @ Diaper Diaries

Filed Under: Freezer Cooking

Be a Light

2011

We’re loving LOVING our chalkboard wall. It keeps the kids busy while I’m working in the kitchen and is perfect for making my to-do lists–or for doodling when I’m procrastinating my to-do list!

Right after I painted, the expanse of black wall seemed a bit much, so I created a piece of “art” to add a pop of color to the upper half of the wall and break to it up a bit. This way the little fries color on the lower portion and then I wipe down the wall after they go to bed to start the next day fresh.

The frame came from an old painting I thrifted. I was drawn to the details in the large frame and planned to replace the picture, but the glass broke before I got to it. Rather than throwing it away (who said a frame has to have glass?), I spray painted it and hung it on the kitchen wall to encase my doodles.

It’s a phrase that speaks to me and has been on my mind a lot lately.

We’ve lived in Kentucky for close to two years now, and have no plans to leave, yet I continue to struggle with living here. It’s a constant battle I have with myself–wondering where I fit in, wondering why the Lord sent us here. Because we feel we were sent here. But every time I ponder the reason we are here and not close to our families or in a bigger city, at a higher paying job, or whatever I feel a need to complain about that day, I have the same feeling, the same thought:

“Be a Light.”

I’m in love with trendy, cute, artwork and decor–and used to look at a lot of home magazines. But lately it feels more like home to me when we are surrounded by things we love, that have meaning to us, and that help tell our family story. And so while I still love browsing those magazines I’m not so worried anymore about my decor being magazine-worthy, trendy, or perfect–as long as it reflects us.

In this case, my decor gives me a daily reminder to flip on my switch.

Filed Under: Decor, Thrifting

I’ll Go Where You Want Me to Go

2011

When Jared approached graduation we applied to every job opening we could find. The economy continued to struggle and many of his previously graduated friends were still unemployed. We were expecting our third baby and I was scared. But we prayed–hard, and had faith in a higher plan.

We wanted to stay close to our family. College had taken us far from them and we wanted our kids to grow up close to their grandparents. But we also knew we needed a job and so as each opening became available–farther and farther from our hometowns on the west coast, we just took a deep breath and prayed we would be sent to the best place for our family.

We never expected it would be Kentucky, especially not a tiny rural town. We even had to refresh our 5th grade geography skills to find out where our new home would be. But when the job offer came, we immediately knew it was right. We had no idea WHY it was right, just that our prayers had been answered, and so we packed up our children and a U-haul, and moved 2,000 miles away.

We met a new neighbor this weekend. She grew up here, raised her family here, and her kids are raising their families here. She was amazed that we would move so far away from “home.” It was hard to explain, just that we are where we are supposed to be.

I’ll go where you want me to go . . . .

{A peek at something I’m working on}

Filed Under: My Story

How I Recovered the Data on my Hard Drive

2011

I wasn’t really planning on sharing this, but have had quite a few people ask for details so I decided to do a little “tutorial” of sorts on how I recovered the data on my “dead” hard drive.

I never planned to share details because I don’t really know what I’m doing and am definitely not a techy! So, if you are, this data recovery method will probably make you cringe and I suggest you go ahead and look away. BUT, if you have a “dead” drive and are willing to risk $2o to hopefully retrieve your documents, this may be a solution for you.

First off, all credit goes to Rebecca who read of my hard drive drama and sent me an e-mail. She had a similar situation and had been able to retrieve her data with the use of an ADAPTER. Her husband (the techy) said I wouldn’t know if the adapter would work on my hard drive unless I tried. But since I stupidly had no backup, and the CHEAPEST data recovery quote I could find was in the hundreds, I decided $19.99 was worth the risk.

This is the adapter I purchased:

The first thing I did was open up the hard case of the drive. It was a bit tricky and I didn’t want to break the case so I ended up finding a youtube video that gave me some tips on opening the case without breaking it. How to open the case will probably vary by brand.

Next I carefully pulled off the green piece (see how technical this tutorial is?!).

Then I plugged the adapter cords into the hard drive. The adapter didn’t come with instructions, so it did take me a minute to figure out where to plug everything, but wasn’t too bad.

Then I took a deep (terrified) breath and plugged the USB cable into my laptop.

And CRIED when my hard drive popped up on the computer screen, recognized the same as it had before the “malfunction.” Now that I’m able to get to my files, I can transfer them to another drive.

If you are wondering if this method will work for you, Rebecca’s husband said you won’t know unless you try, however, (maybe this will help you decide to try?) if the boot sector (where hard drive “starts” and tells the computer what files to get to work) died, then this adapter should work. If it was the the bearings in the hard drive that went though, and the disk inside doesn’t spin, you won’t be able to get to your files.

I hope this helps someone! Let me know if you give it a try!

(Just to let you know, this post does contain an affiliate link, and so I do make a little bit if you purchase directly from here. I’m very grateful if you do as it helps me keep this site running, but understand if you aren’t comfortable.)

Filed Under: Tutorial

Creativity Captured: Artist Tara Put

2011

Creativity Captured is a regular feature in which I spend some time introducing artists, crafters, and bloggers I look up to, am inspired by, and feel have “captured” creativity.

Remember me sharing this darling octopus print?

“This octopus has a busy schedule today: first, some floating, then some laziness. Finally, a bit more floating and a nap! Hope he doesn’t get too tired from having so many things planned!”

I discovered The Lazy Octopus when I was having one of those mojo-lost, winter-blah days. The print description spoke to my tired soul and I love the thought of having so much to do, and even having the ability to do it (some days, I wouldn’t argue about having eight arms!), but just taking the time to ”float” and do nothing. And so, like the octopus, that day, I did!

After discovering the the artist of The Lazy Octopus had an Etsy store full of other ADORABLE artwork, I asked Tara Put to come and share some things about herself and so here she is! Whooop!!

Tell us a little bit about yourself.

I am from Calgary, but currently live in Edmonton, AB, where I am doing my Master’s degree in Speech-Language Pathology. I have been married for almost three years. My husband placed 2nd at the National Barista Competition, so I drink the best coffee around.

Where does your inspiration come from?

My inspiration comes from a lot of places. I have worked with kids for years, and they are always inspiring. I also am inspired by nature, and by other artists’ work, as well as by the materials I am using.

What famous person would you love to meet?

Hmmm… I am not sure!

If you won $100, what would you buy?

Probably clothes. I have a great love for a good pair of jeans.

What is your best selling print?

Probably “The Staring Contest” or “Fields.”

What do you do in your “spare” time?

In my spare time, I spend time with my husband and our families, make things, eat my husband’s delicious cooking, study, study, study!! and read.

I almost don’t want to tell you this next part and just keep it for myself, haha, BUT Tara is generously giving away one print of the winner’s CHOICE from her Etsy shop!! To enter, go visit her shop and then come back and tell us which print you would choose if selected!! Giveaway ends Monday, April 4th.

And to find more of Tara, be sure to visit her on Facebook, Etsy, or Spoonflower Fabrics.

Filed Under: Creativity Captured

How to Make Homemade Refried Beans

2011

A few months ago I was invited to Mexican-native, Marta’s home, early one morning where she spent all day teaching a few friends and me how to make traditional Mexican dishes such as chicken and pork tamales, and refried beans. She spoke only a few words of English, and I speak even less Spanish, however–food has a way of bridging cultural gaps and our communication never lacked.

Later that night we had a Mexican Fiesta at our church. The food was impressive and tasted AMAZING, the entertainment kept us laughing all night, and the hand-made piñatas were a smashing success .

Before Marta taught me how to make refried beans, canned beans were always a cheap staple in my pantry. But now that I know how EASY (and inexpensive) making refried beans can be, I’ve been making my own.

If you come visit me at Once a Month Mom today, I’m sharing my healthified recipe, and freezer tips! YES, these beans freeze well! And a bag of dried beans (which costs about the same as a can of refried beans!) makes a huge batch, so you can freeze them in portions. It’s super handy to be able to grab the beans out of the freezer and just reheat a portion for a quick side dish, burrito filling, nacho dip, etc. In fact, yesterday I got together with a couple of friends for a big freezer cooking day and one of the meals our menu was freezer burritos stuffed with homemade refried beans, taco meat, and cheese. They are individually wrapped so I can easily grab one (or more) out of the freezer for a quick lunch or dinner. Love having “convenience” foods on hand!

See you at Once a Month Mom!

Filed Under: Freezer Cooking

How to Build a Children’s Book Collection {tip one}

2011

How to Build a Children’s Book Collection: Tip One

(Alternatively titled: Avoiding the Grocery Store Variety)

When I was studying to become an elementary teacher my favorite college professor taught how to spot quality children’s lit and encouraged us to avoid the “grocery store garbage.” “Grocery store garbage,” she defined, are those books (usually containing popular cartoon characters) you can buy at the grocery store checkout.

Now I can’t say I 100% keep to this advice, especially since I have kids who love cartoons as much as anyone, however–I do strictly limit them.

Why avoid these books? I mean, a book is a book, right?

Unfortunately, not all children’s books are created equally, and I can honestly say from observing my own kids and their reading habits, after one reading–those cartoon characters typically end with the dust under the bed, while the books with strong literary elements (characters, plot), fun illustrations, or humor are the tattered, re-read books I find tucked in their beds at night.

While I don’t think there’s any harm in humoring the love of Dora or Thomas the Tank Engine a bit, overall, my tip {number one} in building a children’s book collection, is to stick to good stories rather than grocery store checkout selections.

Filed Under: Reading Fun

Building the Book collection

2011

My favorite class in college was Children’s Literature. I grew up loving to read, but taking that class sealed the deal for me and even before our kids were born I’d collected a huge stash of children’s books. When we had a few extra dollars, Jared (my studdly English major) and I used to take breaks from our homework to go to the local thrift store and browse the books. He often came away with 2-3 classic novels, and I came away with a stack of picture books.

My enthusiasm must have rubbed off as the book section is the first place my kids want to search when we go thrifting. We’ve built quite a collection!

Tomorrow I’ll share some tips and suggestions on what to add when building a children’s book collection, but for now, an Etsy print I’m LOVING.

Have a great Tuesday!

Filed Under: Reading Fun

Permission to Draw on the Wall

2011

Since my little artists seem to think the wall is the best canvas anyway, and since I’m about to lose my mind with these flat painted walls that drawings do not come off of . . .

I went a bit bold and repainted this weekend.

I sometimes struggle with the balance between fostering my kids’ creativity and setting limits, and so I hesitated for a minute, wondering if chalkboard paint would encourage more drawing on other walls, or if it would contain it. In the end I decided to just set some boundaries, go for it, and see how it goes. I mean, it’s JUST paint, nothing permanent. (Quite a surprise to Jared when he came home from work though! Turns out he LOVES it and went right to work adding his own bit of wisdom to the wall.)

Naptime is golden around here and I was able to get the wall painted in just under two hours thanks to an edger. How I’ve never known about this blessed tool I’ll never know. Best $5 I spent though and I see more painting in my near future. (Some of you may be wondering what’s up with me painting the walls of my rental house. . .yes, we did get permission and our landlords curse the flat paint just as much as we do.)

(Ok, I kind of like doodling on the wall too!)

My kids love, love, love the new kitchen wall and I think it’s going to be a good thing, especially at the evil dinner hour, because (are your kids like this?) they want to be wherever I am, so they follow me around the kitchen, but then they tend to get bored and whiny while I’m doing dinner, dishes, etc. This way they can still be where I am, but will be busy doing their own thing.

(Best part about this for me is that he’s wearing a raccoon hat!)

Filed Under: Decor

Creativity Captured: Jenni Price Illustration

2011

Play with your food? Pretty sure you’ll want to after meeting Jenni of Jenni Price Illustration. I recently discovered Jenni’s blog and after picking my jaw up off the rug and wiping the drool off the keyboard, sent her an e-mail asking if I could feature her and her adorable food art in my new “series,” Creativity Captured. And was thrilled when she said yes!

See why?!!!!? (Hang on, there’s WAY more!)

Tell us a little bit about yourself.

I’m a wife and a stay-at-home mom and when my kids are in school, I love making them art pancakes for an after school snack. My college degree is in animation so with that as my art background, I especially enjoy creating colorful, whimsical characters for them. I usually try to have a Biblical theme each week and I really love being able to use my art pancakes as a way to teach my children about the Lord. What started out as something fun for them has become a super fun and creative outlet for me too.

Where does your inspiration come from?

I’m most inspired by artwork for animation, children’s books, anything colorful, and whimsical characters. I keep a sketchbook in/or nearby the kitchen so that I can draw ideas when they come to me. My creativity works best though when I’m actively doing something (such as cooking, folding laundry, talking to my kids…etc).

Describe a typical lunch or snack time at your house.

If my kids know that I made them art pancakes for snack, we generally race each other inside the house. They run because they’re excited to see them and I run because I don’t want to miss their reaction. Sometimes they play a little with them if they look like animals or something and my daughter (who loves art) occasionally draws a picture of her pancake.

Do you have picky eaters and if so, how do you introduce new foods to them?

My son is a very picky eater and pancakes are one of his favorite foods. When he was younger (before I started making art pancakes), I would hide fruit in his pancakes. I made them for him every day and one time I got carried away and put pineapple in them. Well, he realized it and was not happy about it! It took awhile for him to forget about that. So now I just started putting fruit in my art pancakes and we’ll see if he figures it out. I just won’t put pineapple in them!

If you could have a super power, what would it be?

Speed for sure! If I was faster at everything, then I could get my chores done quickly, pick up the house immediately after the kids mess it up and have more time for fun things!

What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?

When my grandma (who was a great watercolor artist) passed away, I was given her art books. Tucked inside one of them was a note in her handwriting which is very special to me. It says, “Don’t think in terms of being better than someone else, but think in terms of being the best that you can be.”

THANK YOU so much Jenni! I absolutely adore you and your art, love, love, love that you keep a sketchpad nearby, and the advice your grandma left is priceless. I think you truly have “creativity captured” and I want to be a mom like you!

Find more of Jenni on her blog or Etsy store.

Filed Under: Creativity Captured

Box of 64

2011

Total impulse buy, but in the midst of picking up milk and eggs (and FREE after coupon pasta and canned tomatoes!), and while the kids were munching on their cookie (praise that blessed cookie lady!!), I added a box of 64 to my cart. Sometimes mommies need a treat at the grocery store too. Or at least that’s how I justified it. lol

When was the last time I owned my own box of crayons???? Third grade? Maybe? Not to say I don’t color, oh, I do–daily, but it’s usually with the kids and their broken stubs.

Putting the new crayons to use coloring file folder games for “quiet bags” at church. . . . A little helper snuck her way in, so I have a feeling I’ll be sharing these new crayons. lol

Do you “treat” yourself when at the grocery store? What’s your indulgence?

Filed Under: Keeping Life Creative

Sidewalk Doodles

2011

As I was cleaning the kitchen after breakfast this morning I noticed Miss E was missing and after a brief investigation discovered she’d snuck outside with some sidewalk chalk.

One thing I’m trying to learn is that dishes can wait, but her childhood won’t.

It’s not always easy for this mama to set aside her mile-long to-do list, but believing there will be a time when I miss this, my bare feet also became covered in chalk dust, the sidewalk was filled with doodles, and it felt good to spend some one-on-one time with my middle child.

I want to teach my kids–especially my girls, to find healthy ways to express their feelings. I want them to feel safe using their imaginations, to not worry about what color the “real world” says things are, and to be confident enough to do the things they LOVE and that make them HAPPY.

And I hope that as I teach them, I will discover the same applies to me as well.

Filed Under: Keeping Life Creative, Mommy Moments

The more I know

2011

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When Jared finished graduate school he declared, “The more I know, the more I know I don’t know.”

Isn’t it so true that when we are young we think we know it all and that there couldn’t be anything more but as we get older we start to realize there is always so much more to life, so much more to learn, to know, to do.

Wanna see what I learned today?

How to take apart my “dead” hard drive and hook up this mess of wires to retrieve my files. And this “data” recovery only cost me $20, yo. (Please excuse the weird shine from the vinyl table cover.) See, always so much to learn!

Happy, happy day.

Filed Under: Uncategorized

Love Life and Learning

2011

When I was a kid we didn’t have TV, video games weren’t allowed, the computer was used for typing, and we read. A lot. My parents weren’t big on formal education, but they did try to cultivate our interests through books and hands-on experiences. My siblings and I learned pieces of history through biographies and historical fiction, science through trips to the tide pool and museum. I remember having questions about volcanoes and being accompanied to the non-fiction section of the library and then to have the curiosity fostered as we built a gigantic volcano structure and “blew it up” with a mixture of red food coloring, vinegar, and baking soda.

In third grade when I expressed interest in entering a library-sponsored writing contest, my parents read and re-read my drafts, patiently coached me, and then hastily drove me across town to turn in my entry–literally minutes before the deadline. In fact, no joke–the librarian had just locked the door and was walking out to her car when we pulled up to deliver my story. She was compassionate though, and said she would be happy to add it to the submissions. I won first place and learned more through that childhood experience than I think I would have through a traditional English class.

This weekend I had the opportunity to speak to the women at church on “loving life and learning.” Preparing for that as well as making the recent decision to put our son in school has given me the chance to do a lot of pondering on the subject of education and learning. These days as I’m writing the sequel to the story of my life, I can see a lot of value in my parents’ beliefs of learning through books and experiences. I vary a bit in their philosophies as I’m a firm believer and supporter of receiving a formal education, but I also believe learning doesn’t start and shouldn’t stop there.

Right now while I’m in the season of my life where I’ve stepped away from the workplace to raise my children, I think it’s wise for me to continually be learning. I think it sets an example for my kids, but it also helps me as a mom. I learn SO much from reading blogs, online articles, and even taking an occasional online class. It’s good for me to be familiar with child development so I can better recognize the growing needs of my children. I know it benefits our family as I take the time to learn how to live more frugally whether it be by couponing, freezer cooking, thrifting, or eliminating debt so that we are more easily able to live on our one [not so big] income. And having found hobbies that fulfill me helps me look for more moments of joy in this life.

On Facebook I curiously asked what books you’re reading right now. I’m always looking for a good read, and would love more suggestions. And you can see what I’m reading right now too!

Filed Under: My Story

Teriyaki Honey Chicken

2011

Teriyaki Honey Chicken, rice , and veggies was the first meal I cooked for my husband on one of our first dates as freshmen in college! He must have liked it because here we are 10+ years later! The sweet chicken is still a staple for our family and I especially love that it’s EASY (just dump in a bag!) and that it freezes so well.

Come visit me at Once a Month Mom for the recipe!

Filed Under: Freezer Cooking

GREEN Day {and a Giveaway!}

2011

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Green Cake, Green Door, Green Flowers, Green Apple, Green Wallet, Clothesline doodle by Danielle Thompson

I don’t know about you, but it’s been a loooong winter in my part of the world, and for me, the first signs of green life popping back up is a happy sight!! Last night we went grocery shopping for GREEN foods to eat on St. Patty’s Day. Green grapes, green apples, broccoli, celery, green jello, green punch, green sprinkles for green frosted cookies. . . Last year we did GREEN eggs and ham (sneakily colored with a bit of pureed spinach–the kids never knew!).

In celebration of the nearing spring as well as St. Patrick’s Day, I have a fun GREEN-themed Giveaway for you!!!

One “lucky” winner will receive:

a large funky lime-green lined bowl (Perfect for serving a green salad!)
a lime-green silicone spoon (LOVE these because they don’t melt when I’m cooking!)
a free coupon for Green Giant frozen veggies (dinnertime staple at my house!)
a pedometer
a thermal-lined tote bag (Perfect for taking dishes to a potluck or picnic.)

To enter, leave me a comment sharing your favorite GREEN thing. You can receive an additional entry by “liking” my Facebook page (and leaving another comment). Giveaway ends and a random winner will be chosen on Friday, March 18th.

Disclosure: This giveaway is sponsored by Green Giant and My Blog Spark. They generously shared the above prize pack with me, and will provide an additional prize pack to one lucky reader. Opinions and love of green are all my own .

Filed Under: Keeping Life Creative

Bookmark This One!

2011

This week is the school book fair and Ryan and I went to choose some books for his new teacher. It was a treat I received from thoughtful parents in my teaching days, so I suppose I want to reciprocate now that I’m on the parent end. Plus, I can’t resist browsing children’s literature–one of those things that makes me giddy! So glad my kids feel the same way.

To make the books a little more special we added some pretty packaging. Dollar store kraft paper makes some of the best wrapping paper.

Embellished the package with some simple twine “ribbon”, a scrap of an old dictionary page glued to a library pocket envelope, and a note written on a library index card (purchased at a school supply store).

Topped it off with a stack of bookplates (free printables here).

All ready for a special morning delivery!

And now, I’m wondering, what are your favorite teacher gift ideas? Teacher appreciation week is approaching, and one must be versed in these celebrations!

Filed Under: Gift Ideas

Printing Digital

2011

One of the beginning digital scrapbooking questions I’m often asked (and one I also heavily pondered pre-digi days) is, What about printing?

My preferred method (so far) has been to print my completed layouts in easy-to-handle 8×8 hardbound books. I keep these books easily accessible on the coffee table or bookshelf so anyone can read them whenever they want.

And they do!

I don’t have ONE favorite printing place –yet. I’ve tried several, been happy with most. Since I let my kids look at their scrapbooks I don’t want to spend a fortune on printing (maybe later when I print books JUST for me) and so I typically just wait to find great deals and then print.

One of those “great deals” is going on right now with Groupon and Shutterfly. If you’re new to Groupon, it’s a daily deal site that gathers deals in your area and offers a huge discount—usually 50-90% off—for a limited time (usually one day). It’s a good deal for customers (hello, 50-90% off!), and it’s a good deal for businesses because they get new customers to try them out. Sometimes the deals are nationwide (I’ve purchased Groupons for Redbox and Barnes and Noble), and sometimes the deals are for places local to you (I’ve purchased Groupons for a local restaurant and local museum at deep discounts).

Anyway, so back to printing digital. The Groupon deal today is for 67% off a Shutterfly Photo Book. The first photobook I made as a brand-new-didn’t-know-what-I-was-doing-digi-scrapbooker was from Shutterfly, and I was really happy with how easy it was to use. Shutterfly has the option to create your own pages (this is where you would upload your digital layouts), or you can use the premade templates to drag and drop your digital photos (no scrapbooking required).

On another digi note, TODAY is the last day Little Dreamer will be open. My designs are currently 50% off until “doors” close (discount shows up when you click on each design). At this point I do not have plans to move to another digital store–maybe in the future, maybe for a guest spot or two, but for now I’m planning to take a designing break to work on a few projects, cook, blog, and open an Etsy store.

More details to come!

Filed Under: Digital, Scrapbooking

Spring Pillows

2011

A few years back I convinced Jared I really needed a sewing machine. Christmas came, and he didn’t disappoint. Unfortunately I did (boo) because I don’t really know how to sew, except on paper to create digital stitches–not really what he had in mind during my persuasion!

Falling in love with pretty fabric has recently inspired me though, and I broke out the machine last week to make pillows. I’m loving how they add a fresh, springy feel to the room.

The pillows are definitely not perfect so don’t look too closely at the seams, but I have a feeling they’ll probably have sippy cup milk stains or boogers wiped on them soon anyway, so I’m not too worried about perfection.

Does your decor change with the seasons? What do you do to freshen up a room?

Heather Bailey fabric from LilyBella Fabrics

Filed Under: Decor, Fabric and Felt

The Sun Will Come Out…tomorrow

2011

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Well, the techy people say my hard drive is fried. Since it’s still under warranty, I’ll likely receive a replacement, which is nice, but really it’s my files I’m worried about. Let this be a lesson. . .backup, backup, backup.

When I got off the phone with the frustrating news I checked my e-mail and saw that Jared had sent me an article about “looking for the good” in our lives. What perfect timing, I thought–sarcastically. I was grumpy and just wanted to immerse myself in a box of Ding Dongs, pout about my files being gone, and kick myself (again) for not being smart about backing up. But that wouldn’t be a good example for my girls or my thighs so I read the article instead.

As I got into reading it, my heart was full with the remembrance that while life is so very full of things out of my control, one thing I do have control over is how I’ll react–for happiness is a choice. (Yes, I often make the wrong choice. But, it IS a choice.)

Not that choosing to look for the good solves my hard drive problem or anything, but I can feel peace about reacting in an honorable way, and I’ve definitely learned a great back-up lesson through the midst of this storm.

Vol. 25

Filed Under: Digital

Backing Up

2011

I’ve just spent two stressful days trying to figure out why my brand new hard drive isn’t working. And no, I don’t have a backup. I did, but then I canceled my Mozy account when their prices went up and, well–long story, stupid decision.

Besides my initial freakout about possibly losing all my data and not having a backup, I’m still undecided on what I’m going to do about designing when Little Dreamer closes next week. So I guess you could say I’ve “backed up” a bit in that department while I continue to feel out my options.

The Daily Digi posted an interesting backing up article the other day.

And while we’re talking about it, I was rear-ended when I was in the school pick-up line. Thankfully, my van only got a small scratch. But that was the other guy’s fault, as he was going forward, not as I was backing up.

Filed Under: Digital

First Day

2011

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Age wise, Ryan could have started kindergarten in the fall. But since the kid was reading at three-years old, we were worried he’d be BORED. After lots of contemplation, our decision–at the time–became to homeschool, indefinitely.

A few months ago I started to get a strong, undeniable feeling I needed to get more involved in the community–PTA specifically. The feeling was a bit of a shock because I was really pretty content hanging out in my own little world, staying home with my kids, designing, being active in church. And, um, PTA? You kind of need to have your kids in school to be part of that, right?

Then along with the feeling I should get more involved in the community, I felt we should start looking at schools. I argued with myself for a while because I had committed to homeschooling and was worried I was just getting tired, or burned out, or maybe the winter blahs. And from a selfish, somewhat-snobish, mama-bear perspective, I was worried our son would be overlooked in school because he’s already “up to grade-level.” I knew if I continued to keep him home I could push him at his own learning pace rather than the expected grade-level pace.

For weeks I waffled as Jared and I talked and prayed and made public and private school visits. I finally felt peace after collaborating with the vice principal and discussing the option of enrolling Ryan in kindergarten now–3 months before the school year ends, and then starting him in first grade next year. That way he doesn’t have to completely miss out on the kindergarten experience, but won’t have to sit through an entire potentially boring year.

Yesterday was his first day, and he LOVED it, so I’d say it was a success.

One thing I’ve learned throughout this school enrollment process is that for me, there’s not really a homeschool vs. public school vs. private school debate. Last year when we decided to homeschool I struggled with the decision because I hated having been a homeschooled child. But it was right for our family, at the time, so I invested all I could until it was no longer the right choice.

Now that school is the right choice, PTA . . . here I come???

Filed Under: Mommy Moments

Monday Grocery Shopping (Giveaway)

2011

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It’s been a while since I’ve shared my grocery scores, but to be honest, I’ve been a bit lazy in the couponing department, so there hasn’t been much to show.

I have lots of meat in the freezer and plenty of eggs and milk left from last week, so this week’s shopping was mostly stocking up on manager’s specials and lunch box snacks. My kids love frozen yogurt, so I scooped up a bunch of markdowns (and used a coupon to save more, of course!). I broke my “rule” of spending less than $1 a box on cereal to indulge my three-year old and spent about $57, a bit over my $50/week goal.

For those of you who shop at a Kroger, it’s the second week of the Kroger Cart Buster Event. I took advantage of some good deals last week and am happy to be stocked back up on toilet paper. Yes, it’s the little things that make me happy.

To help Kroger celebrate their Cart Buster Event I have a $25 Kroger Gift Card to share with one of you! (This card can also be used at Kroger affiliates.) All you need to do leave a comment! Do you coupon? What’s your favorite grocery shopping secret?

Giveaway ends Tuesday, March 8th.

**Special thanks to the good people of Kroger, General Mills/Nestle/Proctor & Gamble and MyBlogSpark for sponsoring this giveaway!

Filed Under: Couponing

Bookworms and Sleeping Bags

2011

Come see what I’m sharing today (FREEBIE alert!!) over at Tatertots and Jello!!

And what we’re eating over at Once a Month Mom. . .

Have a great weekend .

Filed Under: Keeping Life Creative

Big Hands

2011

Yesterday when we were making our potato-stamped portraits, Ryan looked over at Emery’s drawings and commented, “Wow, that one has big hands!!” Emmy replied in a knowing voice, “Yeah, that’s cause she’s a mommy!”

While I’m not exactly sure what she meant (I don’t think my hands are THAT big!), it got me thinking about hands, particularly “big hands” and what that could mean for me–the mommy.

It could be that my hands are just much bigger than Emery’s, or that her three-year-old stature only comes hand-high to my body. But I would love to think she sees me as a provider–using my hands to care for her, create for her, hold her. Being generous with my hands is something I strive for.

Rewind to high school when I worked as a waitress at a little deli/donut shop. I loved that job (and the free all-you-can-eat donuts were a nice bonus! It’s amazing I remained a size 5. . . .).

One day after serving a sweet family sandwiches and donuts, I went to bus the table and was shocked to see they’d left me a $20 tip. Since this was the kind of diner where tips were typically $1-2, $5 if it was a big table, $20 was a big deal–especially to me, since I was saving my pennies for college. I don’t remember a whole lot about that family, but the experience has stayed with me–years later–as a lesson in generosity.

Ever since we were dating, Jared and I have talked about wanting to be the kind of people who are generous with what we give. I want to be that kind of person who leaves a $20 tip for a sweet high school waitress, or hands the grocery clerk an extra $100 bill at checkout to help cover the bill of the single mom in line behind me. I want to be the kind of family who spends a month of our summer vacation digging wells in Africa, or gives our Christmas presents to a family who really needs it.

Right now our family is not in the financial position to be very generous with our money–one of the reasons we’re pushing so hard to pay off our debt. But I think generosity can come in different ways, in different seasons, and maybe right now is my season to be more generous with my time, talents, love, or praise.

This year as our family focuses on “prospering,” it’s become clear to me that if our family expects to prosper, we should expect to be generous–the idea ”where much is given, much is required.” (Luke 12:48.)

And so if that means my ”big hands” are giving hands–I’ll take it.

Filed Under: Mommy Moments

Potato Stamping

2011

Potato stamping is a craft my mom used to do with my younger siblings and me. Turns out my kids think it’s just as fun!

You’ll need: a potato (any kind will do!)

Cut the potato in half.

“Draw” a shape with the tip of your knife or a pencil.

Trace the shape with your knife tip as deep as you want the stamp to be, then carve away the potato around the edges of the shape, removing small pieces until your stamp is carved out.

Dip stamps in {washable} paint. Muffin papers make great disposible paint holders! (Vinyl table covering creates a funky glare. . .)

Gather some willing crafters and get creative!!

We also drew self portraits. . .

. . . and created custom stationary (Grandmas, look for mail!!).

So many fun possibilities with these disposible stamps!!

Filed Under: Crafting with Kids

DIY: Silhouette Art {Using Photoshop Elements}

2011

This is the tutorial that was originally featured on UCreate. . . Time to bring it home!

Right now silhouettes are one of my favorite home decor and fashion trends. I love them because they can be made to look subtle and classy, but are also a way to capture and display the detailed charm of your favorite people. I recently created some framed silhouettes for our living room wall and they have become a popular topic of conversation among our visitors! Upon close investigation people always want to know HOW I made them, and especially how I got such detail in my silhouettes.

To create these silhouettes I’m using a digital camera, a cute kiddo, and Photoshop Elements. {Download a free 30 day version of Photoshop.}

First, take a profile photo of your subject against a contrasting background. Don’t stress too much about getting a perfect photo. (The lighting was pretty bad when I took this shot but since I got a good profile, it didn’t matter.)

Upload the photo to your computer and then open in Photoshop Elements (File>>Open). You will see your photo in three places–the main screen, below in the “project bin” (to show which files you have open), and to the right in the “layers palette.”

Go to the image of your photo in the layers palette and right click. Then choose “Layer From Background.” A box will pop up asking if about what you want to name your layer. You can name it or just hit OK. Your photo will now change from a locked background to a manipulable layer.

Go to the tool menu (left side) and click on the lasso to show the other lasso options. Select the Polygonal Lasso Tool.

Outline the edges of the subject with the Polygonal Lasso Tool by left clicking the mouse and and dragging the polygonal lasso tool along the edges until you meet back around to your starting point. When your subject is completely outlined you will see dancing lines. TIP: Before you lasso, you may need to zoom in on your subject to get a more precise outline. (To zoom, click the magnifying glass in the top right corner of the tool bar. Make sure the zoom + option is selected, then zoom in by clicking the magnifying glass on the photo.)

Click on Select, and then click on Inverse.

Now there should be dancing lines around your outlined subject as well as the entire photo.

Hit the Delete key on your keyboard. The background will be removed, leaving only the subject. Deselect the dancing lines by hitting CTRL+D on the keyboard.

Go to the very bottom of the layers palette and create a new layer by clicking the page turning square icon.

Make sure the new layer is selected in the layers palette. Then fill the layer with a solid color using the paint bucket tool. Now select the move tool, then hit CTRL+G on your keyboard. This “clips” the paint-filled layer to the cutout profile.

Hit CTRL+E to merge paint-filled layer with cutout profile.

(When you save your silhouette, to keep the transparent background, save as a PNG file. When you are ready to print your image, save as a JPEG file.)

Now you have your completed silhouette image and the creative fun begins!

Just a few ideas for using your silhouettes. . . .

Drag onto a piece of digital patterned paper and then print on photo paper or canvas to create gorgeous frameable art.

Mix up look by changing the colors and textures by clipping (CTRL+G) different digital patterned papers.

Create memorable note cards

Upload your silhouette to a photo printing website and create adorable mousepads, plates, mugs, magnets, address labels, pendants, postcards, t-shirts, and so, so much more.

Filed Under: Crafty, Decor, Tutorial

Snip, Snip Winners!

2011

Man, you guys have had some haircutting doosies! It was sooo hard to choose only three winners for this one, so after reading and re-reading your stories, I’ve decided EVERYONE who commented needs this kit!

Ha! How’s that for decisive?

Send me your e-mail (pamelaodd@gmail.com) for links and then go scrap those stories!! Oh, and thanks for the good laughs!!

Filed Under: Scrapbooking

Blank Canvas

2011

When we decided to sell the house, commiting to the change was emotional as I grieved the loss of the “dream.” But there was also sense of relief in letting the house go, realizing we could start fresh and make a new plan.

It’s freeing and humbling to realize we live in a place where we really CAN do anything and be anything we set our minds to. Isn’t that what they call the “American Dream?”

Having spent time in China and the Philippines, Jared and I knew our opportunity to “dream” was unique. And so grateful that we could, we started discussing options for our new plan.

Jared was miserable in his current field so I asked about his “ideal” job description and we discovered his dream job was a major career change and required more education. Jared had had amazing college experiences and opportunities and so going back to school was an exciting possibilty for him. But going back to the student life was scary for me, particularly as my role had changed from being a student myself to stay-at-home mom and wife of a graduate student.

Eventually I swallowed my pride as I realized it was important to me that my husband was happy in his career so while he finished out the last weeks of his miserable job, I researched schools and came up with possible scenarios to discuss over dinner. And we began to piece together our goals in the form of a vision board.

(to be continued. . .)

I’ve been thinking about “change” a lot this week as Little Dreamer is closing, and although I’m sad and a bit scared, it’s refreshing to realize there’s an opportunity for change. It’s given me the opportunity to revisit my goals and my priorities.

And it’s given me the chance to use this opportunity for change as a blank canvas where I can DREAM.

Filed Under: Dream, My Story

Creativity Captured

2011

Being a stay-at-home mom is the hardest job I’ve ever had. But it’s also very fulfilling and I believe raising my children is the most important job I’ll have. Having said that, I do understand the monotonous days, the need for a creative outlet, and the desire to follow a dream.

One of my favorite things about the internet is discovering new artists and writers, and especially (but not limited to) creative moms. Etsy is one of my most-often visited sites for creative inspiration, and I like supporting handmade by purchasing when I can.

I was thinking it might be fun to spend some time featuring some of my favorite artists, crafters, and bloggers who I look up to, am inspired by, and feel have ”captured” creativity. (Have a suggestion on someone who should be featured? Link me up!!)

Today I’m introducing the etsy store LilyBella Fabrics because I’ve been frequenting it A LOT lately! I have a sudden weakness for cute fabric, and no, I don’t sew. But yes, I’m amazing with glue and a staple gun. hehehee

It’s hard NOT to get excited about fabric when I see patterns and colors like these.

I read on her etsy profile that Christy, who runs LilyBella Fabrics, is a stay-at-home mom of four that always has a project in the works. I love her already (and no, she has no idea who I am)!

When I ordered some Heather Bailey fabric from Christy’s etsy store last week, she shipped it immediately and this small town girl was happy to get gorgeous fabric without having to drive 2 hours to the nearest fabric store. (Oh, have I mentioned I live in a small town???) I can’t wait to show you the projects I’ve got planned (although I’m kind of afraid to cut into it because it’s SOOO pretty!).

Until next week! Have a great weekend. xoxo

Filed Under: Creativity Captured, Keeping Life Creative

Snip, Snip (GIVEAWAY!)

2011

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Once upon a time there was a boy who read a barber shop book and couldn’t resist practicing a cut of his own. . .

. . . which inspired his mama to contact her favorite digital designer to create a really fun haircutting kit!

And COME. ON. You need this kit. It’s just too cute to pass up. Perfect for documenting haircuts of course, new dos, accident cuts, etc.

Run over to Jacque’s store, where it’s 20% off this weekend!!

I’m giving this kit away to THREE people! Tell me your BEST haircutting blunder in the comments or on Facebook, and it could be you!!

Bye.

Filed Under: Digital, Scrapbooking

Lessons from a Sunny Day

2011

YAY for a sunny day! We’re soooo ready for spring around here. While we were hanging out outside I had my camera, and had a few thoughts I wanted to record for my kids–tidbits of motherly advice.

(She REALLY wanted to stay inside to color, but I made her come out anyway. I know, mean mom. She’s JUST like me I was.)

Elements used (by me): Noteable, Key to My Heart, Rise and Shine, Journaling Strips, Parcel Two by Tangie Baxter

Filed Under: Digital, Mommy Moments

Happy Mail!

2011

I LOOOOOVE getting mail, yes I do. When I was little I used to get bummed when I didn’t get mail and my mom always said, if you want to get a letter, you have to write a letter. I got really good at writing letters very young! Bless those sweet grandmas who always wrote me back.

This week I got happy mail of a different sort. . .delish Heather Bailey fabric.

Not sure what I’m going to do with it yet. . . .though I’m thinking about pillows for the living room. But doesn’t it just sing SPRING?

Love.

Filed Under: Decor, Fabric and Felt, Keeping Life Creative

Sick

2011

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My baby girl woke up sick this morning–the puke soaked bedding kind. (TMI?) If there’s one thing I’ve learned about being a momma it’s to be flexible, and so today’s agenda now includes extra laundry and extra snuggles.

I’m feeling a bit sick myself–but not the puke kind, the uneasy, pit in the stomach, nervous-about-getting-on-an-airplane-kind.

Yesterday came news that Little Dreamer Designs will be closing. It was shocking, bittersweet news. Little Dreamer is a special store to me and I don’t think I would have become a designer if it weren’t for this store and Michelle’s inspiration. I know I’ve told this story before, but I first became interested in learning more about designing when I saw an ad for the Little Dreamer designing apprenticeship contest in 2008. I was a new digital scrapbooker, had severe post-partum depression, and was desperate for a creative outlet. When I saw that apprenticeship ad it occurred to me that real people were creating all these amazing digital designs I was scrapbooking with. LOL I knew barely anything about Photoshop but thought it would be so cool to apply and so while my husband worked late nights during his master’s program, I put the kids to bed and devoured Photoshop tutorials. After a few weeks I had worked up several {terrible} design samples, finally settled on one for the application and sent it in. I even put an image of myself as the winner of the Little Dreamer Apprentice Program on my vision board.

S0 I was CRUSHED when I didn’t even make the first round of cuts.

But after some initial sulking I decided to try designing again, and had the opportunity to sell at Elemental Scraps (now closed), Funky Playground Designs, and The DigiChick. Two-and-a-half years after that first contest I was invited to join the Little Dreamer team and it was certainly a “dream” come true.

Over the past couple of months the air has been different in the store and I’ve sensed change coming, so I was not completely surprised to hear we would be closing. But I am sad to say good-bye to my digi home. There is comfort for me though, that the store is not closing because it wasn’t doing well. Judging by the number of e-mails and facebook messages I’ve received, I’m sure that will be a comfort to many of you as well. We’re closing because our amazingly talented Michelle Coleman has received another opportunity that is just too good to pass up in this unstable economy. She is also planning a wedding and expecting a new baby, so while Little Dreamer will be missed, and I know it was a difficult decision for her, I’m sure we can all understand the need to consider what’s best for our families and our health.

Many of you have asked what I am going to be doing now. The truthful answer is, I really don’t know yet, hence the pit in my stomach this morning. But I am incredibly grateful to have options. Overwhelmingly grateful. And I really appreciate your supportive e-mails and kind words and prayers. It means so much to me. Sometimes doors close for a reason and I have a lot to consider.

In the meantime, the store closing does mean there is a major benefit to YOU–and that is a 50% off sale until our virtual doors close on March 15th. If there is something you’ve been eyeing, it’s definitely a good time to stock up!! I’ve noticed things are running a bit slow–maybe because it’s getting a lot of traffic, so if you get an error message, give it a rest and try again. I’ll give you plenty of notice before all my designs are pulled.

Filed Under: Digital, Scrapbooking

A French Toast Morning

2011

Most days breakfast is pretty low key around here, with oatmeal or cereal on the menu. But sometimes variety is called for, and the kids often request french toast. While I love french toast as much as the next person, I’m lazy efficient and often make it in a casserole form. Think french toast marries bread pudding and has a baby.

It’s EASY and fast to put together and cooks up while we get dressed and do our morning routine, which I love. I think I’m just in the stage of life where staying close to the stove to flip soggy bread is not practical and I imagine leaving the kitchen to discover my Oddles have pulled an entire package of baby wipes out of the container, one lovely wipe at a time–or that a marker masterpiece has been drawn on the cursed WHITE carpet.

Not that it would ever happen or anything. {Ahem.}

Shall we get to that recipe?

Ingredients: bread, eggs, milk, cinnamon, vanilla

8 pieces of bread. Stale is good. Half a loaf of last night’s leftover french bread is good too. Tear it up into bite size pieces. (Better yet, give the kids this job!)
Beat up 6 eggs, a cup of milk, 1 tsp. cinnamon, and 2 tsp. vanilla.
Place bread chunks in a greased baking dish. Pour egg mixture over bread and let soak in.
Bake at 375F for 30-45 minutes or until golden brown and set.
Serve with syrup, jam, or fresh fruit and whipped cream, if desired.

Yum.

Filed Under: Yummy

A Gaudy Mirror

2011

When I came home with this mirror Jared wanted to know why I would buy such a “gaudy thing.”

“I have a plan,” I told him.

“Hmmm. I’m sure you do,” he said. Pretty sure he thinks I’m going crazy. Cooped up too long at home or in this small town, perhaps. Or maybe that’s just what I say to myself to make myself feel better. Haha

But I DO have a plan. See, I really love this Anthropologie mirror. . .

But the price I can live without.

When I saw the $12 “gaudy” flea-market mirror, it felt like a makeover waiting to happen. And since I’m working on my girls’ room and since there’s nothing a good coat of spray paint can’t do, I thought it could be perfect.

I’m thinking of painting it hot pink or turquiose. Couldn’t decide so I bought both.

THEN, I happened to be cruising the blog world today, and saw this:

CAAARRRRAAAAAZY! So my “original idea” was not so original. Ha. But at the same time I’m glad for the visual and confirmation that I’m not a total weirdo for buying a gaudy mirror.

Seeing Meg’s mirrorgot me thinking, hmmmm. Maybe I don’t want my mirror in the girls’ room. Maybe I should put it in the kitchen or living room??!!

Ahhhh! Decisions.

Papers and embellishments from Key to My Heart.

Filed Under: Decor, Thrifting, Vintage

Doing Nothing

2011

Oh my. It MUST be February. All I want to do is curl up, watch pointless TV, and eat chocolate. Yes, I get this way about this time every year. Yes, you’d think I’d remember and try to prevent it. *Sigh.* But I don’t and it seems to sneak up on me an steal my mojo.

Last night I made meatloaf and mashed potatoes for dinner. Thank you freezer cooking. It was easy to pull off a yummy domestic meal without effort. And then after dinner Jared bathed the kids so I could ”get out.” I had been talking to a friend earlier in the day and she commented that sometimes you just need to “extract yourself” from your current surroundings and allow your mind to wander. I needed to take a moment to myself, to clear my head.

Have I mentioned before that I live in a tiny town? No Target, no craft store, not much open past 8pm. That kind of town. So when hubs asked where I was going to go, and I didn’t have a clue.

For a minute I just drove. Cranked up the music, loud. And drove.

Then I went to the flea market. A trip there always inspires creativity for me. It’s weird, something inspiring about fingering vintage paintings and china dishes, stretching my mind to come up with a modern use for them. I browsed for an hour or so then headed home in time to tuck the kids in bed, watch TV, and eat angel food cake and blueberries with Jared.

This morning went as usual. We got up early, read scriptures as a family, ate breakfast, did our morning chores, and hugged and kissed daddy on his way to work. Then Ryan collapsed in our big yellow chair and sighed, “There’s nothing better than just sitting down and doing nothing.”

Before my grandpa got really sick I watched him spend a lot of time outside on the patio, just sitting. He’d built birdfeeders in his yard and he loved to sit and feel the breeze and watch the birds, usually while sipping a Diet Coke. I always worried that he was lonely, but he seemed perfectly content to hang with his thoughts.

The nugget of wisdom from my 5-year-old was just was I needed this morning. Because sometimes, most of the time, I get so busy in my various roles and responsibilities that I don’t take time to just sit, and do nothing except spend time with my thoughts.

I think I’ll do that today.

I’m in love with this Etsy find, The Lazy Octopus. Especially after reading the product description: “This octopus has a busy schedule today: first, some floating, then some laziness. Finally, a bit more floating and a nap! Hope he doesn’t get too tired from having so many things planned!” Sounds nice, yeah?

Filed Under: Keeping Life Creative, Mommy Moments, Thrifting

Felt Up

2011

The winter blues have gotten to me the past few days. But do you know what makes me really HAPPY?

Felt.

Yep, I love it. So much I spent $60 on it this weekend. Yikes. That’s a bit embarrassing to admit.

Putting it to good use though. More coming soon. . .

What makes you happy?

Filed Under: Crafty, Keeping Life Creative

Light

2011

When I recently I talked about my electric-less memories, Chelle commented that my kids would probably LOVE it if their bedtime stories occassionally included lanterns or flashlights, as was the case in my childhood. Of course I LOVED the suggestion, wondered why I had never thought of it, and planned the experience for our next family night.

Once everyone was cozy on the couch in clean pjs and favorite blankets, we turned down the lights and I told them about my childhood days when my family didn’t have electricity.

I planned to go right into reading a story by flashlight as my mom once did by kerosene lamp, but felt prompted to first take an extra minute to share a spontaneous object lesson. All I had was a minute because the minature attention spans were about to expire, so I simply and briefly explained my belief of the Savior as our true source of light.

Some days I’m terrified about the role I’ve stepped in as a parent. I see things on TV or hear Jared talk about what his college students are involved in, and I swear I will never let my kids out of the house. (Remember that wipes commercial with the mom who kept her kid in a bubble ’cause the world was too messy?) hahaha

Realisticly though, and setting all the freakish sheltering tendencies aside, I know my little people need life experiences to develop. I know they will face challenges and temptations and times when they need to make hard decisions. As much as that scares me, and as much as I wish I could keep them babies forever, I need to daily seek the Light so I can teach these Oddles where to go for light.

I only hope my own actions toward them will exemplify that Light.

Filed Under: Mommy Moments, My Story

Dinnertime Sanity

2011

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again, weekly meal planning keeps me sane during that daily evil-hour-before-dinner hour. And I ALWAYS kick myself when I don’t do it.

But lately just “planning” our meals isn’t working so well thanks to a sweet little girl. It seems like JUST when I figure something works, it doesn’t work anymore. hahaha. Lovin’ this season.

I used to be able to prep dinner while Serity munched on a snack or played with the other kids but she’s been SOOOO clingy lately (not that I always mind, it means extra cuddles for me!) so any meal plan I might have is often ditched for something quicker.

A few months ago I got together with a couple of friends and we spent several hours prepping meals for the freezer. It was our first time doing an “all day cooking” sort of venture, so we probably weren’t as efficient as we could have been, but we pretty proud to walk away with around 30 meals. (Sorry, pics weren’t really the priority that day. . . .)

Since then I’ve been doing a lot more freezer cooking. I don’t have a separate freezer (just the one attached to the fridge), so space has been a bit of a challenge, but the challenge is worth being able to grab something out of the freezer to throw into the oven or Crockpot. It’s definitely helping with the crazy dinnertime hour, so I can focus on other things (like some yummy baby snuggles, or readingANOTHER Magic Treehouse chapter!).

In case anyone’s in the same boat (or you just want to save yourselves a bit of time!!), Once a Month Mom (OAMM) is an amazingly helpful (AND FREE!) resource I found a while back. Each month the “once-a-month mom” plans a new menu with foods suitable for freezing and then gives step-by-step directions on achieving a successful cooking day. I have to admit, I’ve never tackled another “all day cooking day” since the get together with my friends, but I have been using bits of time to do extra cooking and thanks to OAMM have learned a lot about creating the freezer meals that are keeping my dinnertime sanity.

And as Martha would say, THAT’S a good thing.

Filed Under: Freezer Cooking Tagged With: Freezer Cooking

Living the Dream

2011

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Jared and I were fresh out of college with a new baby when we jumped on the house-buying bandwagon—purchasing a construction-phase “starter” home in a trendy part of town. The mortgage payments stretched past our means, but it was a “good deal” for a new house, and I craved the prospect of “settling”—expecting a house would establish us and fulfill my insecurities. Jared, my adoring husband, supported me and worked hard to provide— aiming to make his young wife happy.

Shortly after we moved into the new house a visitor longingly said to Jared, “You’re living the dream, man. You’re living the dream.”

To be honest, I mentally patted myself on the back, for in my mind, we were living a dream. And in my mind we deserved it. I felt entitled to a reward after having worked so hard. I was a college graduate; had married a loving and committed man; had an adorable blue-eyed, blond-haired baby boy; and now had a new granite-countertopped home to meticulously decorate. What more could I want?

Jared left for work at 5am while I stayed home with my baby and my hobbies. I was bored and lonely and sad, but since I had painted myself the perfect image, I put a smile on my face and continued to pat myself on the back for my job well done. I mean, what did I have to complain about? We were living the dream!

Life has a way of smacking us down when we forget to show gratitude to the One who gives us everything. Truly, our plan isn’t always THE plan, especially when we give ourselves the glory.

I learned that the hard way.

While the housing market was rising, the economy was falling and six months after purchasing the house, Jared’s “stable” job ended.

There was a minute of panic before we began to make a new plan and we spent a lot of time on our knees, pondering the next step. Considering a new plan meant re-evaluating our priorities, and for me, meant reflecting on my motives and intentions. It was time for me to ask myself, what really matters? Who are you trying to impress? What are you trying to “keep up” with? WHY are you trying to keep up with them? What makes you so entitled? Why do you deserve anything?

Although Jared’s previous job had paid well, he was miserable in the line of work so we had a candid conversation one night–discussing our options.

“What’s your DREAM job?” I asked.

And then it clear to us he needed to go back to school. And there was the realization we needed to let the house go. The decisions came suddenly, unexpectedly, and within days our brand-new house was for sale {in the terribly slow market} and we were we applying to graduate schools. We made a new vision board, and continued to pray. Hard.

I cried. A lot. I grieved for my beautiful cranberry-painted kitchen, plush-carpeted craft room, and loss of the dream. Having grown up with financial instability, I was determined my own family would never experience it, and the house spelled security and status in my young mind.

It took a lot of humble prayer before I finally felt peace about selling the house. That’s when I realized it was JUST a house, not our HOME and it was more important that we were together. I exercised difficult-for-me trust in my husband when he promised there would be another house when the timing was right. And so the “dream” was not extinguished, just put on hold.

Luckily, Miraculously, Gratefully, the house sold seven weeks after putting it up for sale—just as were learning Jared had been accepted to our first-choice graduate school and that we were going to have another (surprise!) baby.

(to be continued. . .)

Truly, HIS plan is always better than our plan. I’ve been trying to remember that He does have a plan (though unknown to me) as I’ve pondered our “prospering” dreams this year.

Filed Under: Dream, Goals, My Story

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2011